This is about one of the biggest and most puzzling question for men. No one can exactly wrap their head around why anyone cheats, not to talk of women who are always usually the contented ones in relationships. The truth is, even women themselves don’t exactly know why they cheat, but best believe that if a woman ever makes it past the decision to cheat and actually goes ahead to commit the crime, there is no going back.
There are few but very intense reason why women would generally consider cheating on their men, and these reasons can actually be worked on if the men in their lives just sits and listen. Let me break down what I mean.
1. TO FILL AN EMOTIONAL VACUUM
This is one of the most important reason why any woman would ever consider cheating in a relationship. If she feels an emotional void or vacuum that a relationship with you hasn’t yet filled, then she will look to fill that vacuum someone else. To women, their emotional needs is as important as every other need in the life, probably more important than food. It is why as you meet their financial needs as their providers, it is never going to be enough until you actually make them feel your presence emotionally. Women are like flowers, they blossom when being cared for and when their soul are fed with love. So, if all you do is meet your girlfriend’s financial needs, but never truly find time to take her our once in a while, write her love notes, steal kisses randomly and just stare at her like she is the most beautiful woman in the world, she is going to go find that fulfillment somewhere else.
2. BOREDOM
Women can be somewhat as adventurous as men, as usually do crazy stuff when they get bored just like men. Ask yourself where your current relationship stands. Is the spark that used to burn at the beginning of the relationship still there? Do you feel as intensely drawn to this person as you used to? If No is your answer, then you probably know or have a hint of how she must be feeling in that relationship. Boredom in a relationship opens up the window for unwanted guest who can come make your girl feel that there must be something she is missing with you. It is at the point of maybe exploring at something new that most women find themselves cheating in relationships. If this is your relationship, you owe it a responsibility to get working.
3. FINANCIAL SECURITY
Everybody finds this excuse as flimpsy as it comes, but best believe, one of the major reasons women cheat is to gain financial security. No, she hasn’t stopped loving you. No, she doesn’t have doubts about you. No. she isn’t greedy. She just found someone who promises a better financial secured future for her than you can provide, and if we are being honest, you will realise that woman probably need twice the amount of financial aid to survive than a man will. Because women are used to having men as the providers as the society has designed it, they look up to the men to provide irrespective of whether they can fend for themselves or not. So yes, most women cheat so they never have to worry about the things that money can buy at a particular time, pending when you can start to provide like she wants.
4. SEXUAL EXPLORATION AND SATISFACTION
It is not just important that your girl is financially and emotionally satisfied in a relationship with you, it is important that she is also sexual satisfied. Ask your when last you guys did anything crazy or explored with your sexual life. When last did you make out in public, do PDAs or even had mind blowing foreplay. Are you the one style man, the man who considers it a taboo to eat out his lady but wants to get mind blowing blow job? Are you a selfish man during sex, only seeking to take but never really giving? Then there is a high tendency that the reason she is seeing other people is because finally, someone else is putting her sexual needs first before his, that she is finally getting the sexual satisfaction that she truly deserves and that her body is finally getting worshiped like it truly deserves. If you need for her to be back as your girl, then you need to do and be better.
5. REVENGE
Believe it or not, there are still women who cheat in the 21st century as a means of revenge for men’s countless betrayals in relationships. So if your babe is one of those babes who will go explore as you are exploring than you really have no reason to be mad.
I am guessing that you now have a glimpse into the thought process of women and why they cheat. It doesn’t have to sound rational to you, but it is what it is. So take some time out and communicate with your lady, find out where you guys are both lacking and fix it.
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