Sometimes the signs a woman likes you are things she does intentionally, and other times they’re subconscious. Whether she means to or not, she’s sending you pretty clear hints about how she feels about you and what her answer would be if you asked her out.

Save yourself some stress and find a good match faster by learning how to tell if someone likes you.

Here are the biggest signs a girl likes you:

1. She Doesn’t Hesitate Saying Yes When You Ask Her To Hang Out

A girl who genuinely likes you isn’t going to hesitate when you ask to hang out.

When you ask her to get a bite to eat with you, she’ll usually smile and say sure or absolutely.

And if she does have something planned…

…she’ll try to reschedule:

“Oh I can’t. I’m so sorry…but I’d love to try something another time!”

“I have plans tomorrow…but I’m free on Saturday!”

A woman who likes you will genuinely want to spend her time around you.

2. She’s Told Her Friends About You

I’ll let you in on a little secret:

Women love talking with their girlfriends about the guy they have a crush on.

How do you know if she’s told her friends about you?

Usually, girls will unintentionally tell you:

If, while the two of you are hanging out, she says something like, “I was telling my roommate the other day about how you had never seen Jurassic Park. She couldn’t believe it either!” then you can be pretty sure she’s interested in more than friendship.

3. She Does Specific Things When You’re In A Group Setting

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If a girl is interested in you (and aside from common in-person flirting signs) she will:

• Frequently look at you (you can tell this if you two make a lot of eye contact)
• Make it a point to sit close enough to you that the two of you can talk

Either of these are great signs a girl likes you.

4. She Initiates Physical Touch When You’re In Public

Here, there are two different scenarios to consider:

When You First See Her

What does your friend do when you first see each other?

Awkward wave? High five? Side hug?

If a girl likes you, she’ll likely do something that breaks the intimate “touch barrier.” The most common way she’ll do it is through a sincere hug. A sincere hug is more than the standard “greeting” hug, and may even be closer to a bear hug.

This means she feels comfortable around you and has no problem breaking the “touch barrier.”

When You’re Hanging Out

Pay attention to the number of times she touches you.

If it’s more than 5 times while you’re together (specifically on the knee, shoulder, or arm), then she’s further breaking that “touch barrier.”

Physical contact is important in any relationship, and it’s a great sign if she’s already breaking the touch barrier down.

5. Conversations Between The Two Of You Seems Effortless

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Both your conversations and your time together seem effortless.

A two hour date suddenly turns into an eight hour date, and neither of you seem to notice where the time went.

If this is happening to you…

…she definitely likes you.

Don’t think twice about it.

6. You’re Starting To See Her “Dorky” Side

A woman who is comfortable with and sincerely likes you will start to reveal things she doesn’t share with the rest of the world.

Many times, this can come in the form of an embarrassing quirk she has…

…or watching her nerd-out about her favorite book or TV series.

The two of you are comfortable together, and neither of you has to be someone that you’re not.

7. She Has Openly Told You Some Personal Things About Her Life

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Think about the conversations you two have.

If this girl really likes you, your conversations won’t always remain surface level. In fact, these conversations can turn personal very quickly.

You don’t just know what her favorite movie is…

…you also know what some of her biggest goals and dreams are.

If she isn’t afraid to reveal the more personal stuff to you, it means she trusts you. With women, trust is not something freely or easily given.

8. She’s Mentioned An Event In The Future She Wants To Go To With You

This should be a dead giveaway of her interest.

When a woman includes you in her plans for the future, it means she wants you there…in her future.

This could include her saying anything from, “We should see that movie when it comes out,” to “There’s this wedding coming up and I’d love for you to go with me.”

While these are two extremes, any time a girl includes you her plans for the future is a good sign.

9. She Wants You To Meet Her Roommates/Friends

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Most women won’t date a guy who hasn’t been given the stamp of approval by her closest friends.

So, if she’s saying things like, “You totally have to meet my roommates. They’d love you!” or “My roommates have been dying to meet you,” it tells you two things:

1. She’s told her friends about you
2. She want her friends’ opinion of you

If she’s including her friends in the process, she thinking about keeping you around for a while.

10. She’s Fully Present When She’s With You

Is your girl constantly checking her Facebook, sending texts, or making calls when she’s with you?

If a girl really likes you, she’ll be fully present when you’re together, especially one-on-one.

Now:

She may check her Instagram a few times or send an occasional text, but for the most part, she’s really engaged with what you two are doing or talking about.

If she’s more focused on you than her phone, it’s a great sign.

11. She’s Wants To Hang Out One-On-One

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It’s usually during one-on-one time that relationships move to the next level. There are countless things that may happen here that likely wouldn’t happen when you’re hanging with a group:

• More personal conversations
• More intimate flirting
• A kiss

So, if you’ve been consistently hanging out with a girl for 5-6 weeks, and she still doesn’t want to hang out with just you when you ask, she may only want to be friends.

12. She Mirrors Your Behaviors

There’s an old phrase about why people copy each other: imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

Meaning… we want to be like the people that we like!

This holds true in romance too. When a girl likes you, she will subconsciously imitate, or mirror, your behavior and body language (this is especially true when a shy girl likes you)

Does she lean in when you lean in? Does she relax when you relax? Swirl the ice in her glass after you do?

Whether she realizes it or not, she mirrors your behavior so that you will have a positive impression of her…

She does it because she’s into you!

13. She Asks You A Lot Of Questions

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If you’ve already read our post on personal questions to ask a girl you know the importance that asking questions has.

By asking questions she is communicating her interest in you and her desire to get to know you on a deeper level. 

Be sure to answer her questions thoughtfully. You’ll encourage her to keep going and show her that she’s someone you’d like to open up to.

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