Most men have the picture of the kind of woman they want in their mind even before they meet the woman: from the body physique, character and complexion. Looking out for physical appearance of a lady is good but it shouldn’t be the major factor in choosing a good girlfriend or life partner.
It is said “beauty attracts a man but character determine whether he will stay or not.” Men are moved by sight, but there are a lot of things men like in women more than a fine face and body. Today I bring to you 12 things men like in women more than fine face and body.
- Natural.
In a world where make up is seen as the latest trend in fashion, most ladies depend solely on make-up for their beauty. I know of a lady that will never leave her house without a makeup on her face. The thing here is: most of these ladies carry heavy make up to impress the guys but the irony of it is that, most guys prefer ladies being natural.
2. Intelligence.
When I speak of intelligence, l am not referring to a bookworm who is book-smart. There is more to intellect than being a bookworm. When I speak of intelligence in a woman, I am referring to her ability to analyse situations and proffer possible solutions. Men see such women as good manager. It is said “the man builds the house, the woman builds the home.” An intelligent woman is admired by most men. Being intelligent is where a woman’s true beauty lies: it reflects her thought-patterns. She might not have a fine face and body, but if she is intelligent, most men will love to have her because she is more of an asset that a liability.
3. Eloquent.
A woman can be as beautiful as a goddess, but if she is not outspoken and eloquent, she may be taken for granted. Men like to show off their women: a man wants his woman to represent him well in public; It boosts their ego seeing their women speaking with confidence in public.
4. Industrious.Â
Gone are those day when a woman’s education ends in the kitchen. The new sexiness is seen in an industrious woman. If you are beautiful and lazy, no man will want to be serious with you. Instead he will see you as a burden. There is beauty in being industrious.
5. Humorous.
In a world, where there is a lot of chaos and difficulties, every man want to have a woman that will give him peace and be his safe haven. A lively woman spices a man’s life. When she is lively, jovial and fun to be with, he will always want her around him. Contentious and always looking for a fight, no matter how beautiful she is, chances are high men will keep avoiding her (or at best, enjoy her body and move on to find peace in another).
6. Respectful
Respect is probably the only love language men easily understand. You might have Beyonce’s face and Kim’s body, but if you are not respectful you can’t keep a man. A real man loves respect more than a fine face or body.
7. Unpredictable
Men loves puzzles, and they love the chase. A woman who is spontaneous and unpredictable romantically will be chased by every man. Men love adventure in romance: when you are unpredictable, you will always put them in the “I-can’t-wait-to-see-what-she-is-up-to” good suspense mode, and they love the feeling.
8. Good cooking skills.
There is that old saying: the way to a man hearts is through his food. To get hold of a man through food these days, you have to be a really good cook as there are alternatives to eating badly prepared meals (a man will prefer to eat out than come to your place to eat “nonsense”). Step up your cooking game, and he may never let you out of his sight.
9. Motherly Impulse.
The average man dreams of getting married someday, and have children. He looks forward to having a good wife for himself and a great mother for his kids. If a woman has all the beauty in the world, but can’t be seen as a mother-figure, she may end up only been admired from a distance by men who wants a future for themselves with a woman.
10. Independence.
Gone are those days when women sit at home and wait for their men to pay all the bills. Beautiful women in the world of today are independent women. If fine face and body is all you have to brag as a woman, then you have a long way to go. Your beauty may attract the man, but your over-dependence on him may push him away someday. Rather than depend on him for fish, have him teach you to fish.
11. Smiles.
Smiling illuminate a woman’s face. A woman that always smiles is like a magnet. She attracts people to herself, and she is “contagious”. A smile on your face will always enhance your beauty as a woman.
12. Gifted
Most gifted women meet the men of their dreams through their talents and skills. Men admire women who are talented. When a woman is skillful, they see great potentials in that woman and would love to build a home with her.
Beauty is not measured by how tall or slim you are as a lady. Beauty is accepting who you are physically while contributing your quota to the betterment of the world. Physical beauty fades, body shape changes, and that fine face will grow wrinkles with time. Hold on to a good character and the man of your dreams will locate you.
Stop having the unpopular notion that men are after women’s physical beauty: on the contrary, men seek women with inner beauty.
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